How to handle fake subs and timewasters

As findom grows, more people land in domme inboxes who are not serious: fake sends, endless roleplay, promises that never arrive. Handling them quickly protects your time and your authority.

Make them filter themselves

Clear terms and a stated first step turn most timewasters away before they reach you. Structure is a filter.

Do not chase

A fake send or a wall of talk gets one calm response, then your attention moves on. Chasing rewards bad faith.

Spend energy on the serious

Your time is the scarce resource. Protecting it is not rude, it is exactly the authority real subs are looking for.